His Soul is being haunted by all kinds of memories that are held within his individuated unconscious: Uranus, the 11th House, and Aquarius. It is these memories within the individuated unconscious that are basically controlling or dictating his behavior, and why his reactions to stimulus, circumstantial stimulus, is disproportionate to that stimulus: it is literally unpredictable. The last thing this Soul would need are artificial forms of control that attempt to suppress his behavior. In the end, it will only make it worse. The purely emotional approach that the mother knows how to do is the right way to proceed. This Soul is actually a very intelligent Soul who has the capacity to understand the 'why's of things: all that 8th House energy, his Scorpio Moon. The very best approach with him is to talk to him about the reasons for his behavior which can include the knowledge about prior lives: of course within the context of a five year olds capacity to understand. This is where the language used, Mercury retro in Aries, is critical. The point is talking to him like that, especially by talking about other lives, is at first to make such stories general and 'philosophical' in nature: his Jupiter on the S.Node, his Pluto is Sag.
Hi I was wondering if the reference to 'artificial forms of control' is a reference to medication such as ADHD meds or the like? Are there times when you think medication is useful? I have a child with a similar story and I found the reference to the memories/11th house/controlling and dictating the behavior really interesting as it parallels my son although I must say I cant read charts at any in depth level he has the heavy aquarian signatures, the second/8th and the Aries energies all pronounced in his chart as well along with the Pluto/Sag. I have resisted all urgings and suggestions by his 'teachers' to put him on medication for about 4 years and instead have tried to work with him as best I could with some of the suggestions listed in here. A little different dynamic though as his family broke apart , the mother is in and out (mostly out) of his life as well as off and on addicted to prescription meds and a heavy marijuana user. So it has just been me for the most part and it has been during a time where I have had to fight through my own process of anger at the mother and just some anger in general which wasn't useful at all to him.....or me... But having chosen this route and watching him grow over the last 4 years there has been marked improvement in his ability to cope and socialize, to communicate and to deal with his own emotions in a more productive manner though he still has work to do (as do i).
Is there an eventual process via the 11th house as you described it "It is these memories within the individuated unconscious that are basically controlling or dictating his behavior, and why his reactions to stimulus, circumstantial stimulus, is disproportionate to that stimulus: it is literally unpredictable. "
as they are dictating the behavior to a time when they are not dictating the behavior and the individual is then in control of them? Is it just a matter of understanding the source of the behaviors, the ability to see oneself and why they are behaving that way? The ability of being conscious about the 'why'?
I hope that is clear. Thanks. And good luck Gonzalo.